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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Happy Birthday J!

I've been waiting for this blessed day for the past three weeks. I don't have to go it alone as an elderly 23 year old anymore. Today is J's birthday.

J was there to draw me a map of campus on my first day of college ( I still got lost, but she tried). She listens to my rants about life and love. She tells me what she really thinks, not just what I want to hear. J is creative, ambitious, and independent. I know she is going to make an impact in a big way, simply because she wants to.

 I am happy to say that I have retained a friend that I truly admire. 20 years of life hasn't changed that fact. I can't wait to see what happens during the next 20 years. You all will get to experience only the tiniest fraction of what she has to offer to this world. But a little bit is most certainly better than nothing at all.

Thanks for reading,

H :)

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Making Your Life Extraordinary

I bought “7: How Many Days in the Week Can Be Extraordinary?” By Dan Zadra for H as one of her birthday presents. I bought it on Uncommon Goods on a very trying day, hoping that it would inspire her, or at the very least get her thinking. To sum up the book in one sentence: Carpe Diem. Seize the day! The ultimate motivational, inspirational phrase. The book itself offers quotes and things to think about, and upon flipping through it when it arrived in the mail, I found it to be just what it had advertised on its cover and more.

“7” brings up the fact that no day is insignificant, which I had never really thought about before. Until that moment I was confident that I was living my life experiences out to the fullest degree, but do I really?

“This is my one and only life. And it's a great and terrible and short and endless thing, and none of us come out of it alive.” – Holly, PS I Love You (2007)

On a typical day, my life isn’t too exciting. I’m not on a movie set, jetting around the world, going to an amazing concert or anything like that every day of the week. But does that make my normal days insignificant? “7” says no, that every day is a day that could change your life. You just have to let it.

This doesn’t mean totally life altering events, although it could. But more along the lines of appreciating every day you’re given, seeking opportunities and doing what you want to do, whenever you want to do it since “someday is not a day of the week”. Seeing the small things, the things that make you smile or make you curious, those sweet moments that aren’t big events but make you feel warm and comfortable inside. Anything can change your life, so why not take every chance you get to make it extraordinary?

“And in the end I think I've learned the final lesson from my travels in time; and I've even gone one step further than my father did: The truth is I now don't travel back at all, not even for the day, I just try to live every day as if I've deliberately come back to this one day, to enjoy it, as if it was the full final day of my extraordinary, ordinary life. –Tim, About Time (2013)
-J


Thursday, March 6, 2014

Happy Birthday: Here's to you, H.

Today my oldest friend turns a year older. You have yet to hear from her on here, but just wait, I'm sure her posts will blow you away and delight you. 

For over 20 years we've grown together. We danced through our childhood, biked and stole flowers through our adolescence, and laughed throughout our whole lives. Ballet shoes brought us together and now any opportunity she gets, she tries to steal my black suede booties. And like it or not, H, you're stuck with me for life.

To the one that's supportive and understanding, punctual and indecisive. Creative, hilarious, beautiful and courageous. To someone who dreams big; who wants to see the world and also wants to make a difference in it. To the one who knows everything about cinematography, who loves Corgis (especially those named Jim), who asks for "just a sippah" of all my drinks and who loves soft things near her face. 

And to the one who asks for presents throughout the year, but not on her birthday.

Here's to you, H. Happy Birthday.

Love, J.

There are three hundred and sixty-four days when you might get un-birthday presents, and only one for birthday presents, you know. 
-Lewis Carroll 

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Hostels: It's Not Just Where You Lay Your Head

I know that for many Americans, hostels seem like dirty and dangerous boarding. Before I went abroad, I had never really thought about them past knowing that the movie Hostel had turned my friends into believing that I'd be killed as soon as I set foot in one. But obviously I wasn't killed, and actually my hostel staying experience was a pleasant one. Here's where I stayed and what I've learned along the way.

First of all, I'd just like to point out that to me nothing was better than coming "home" after my time away. Travelling was fun and fulfilling, but the comfort of my temporary home was far better. The culture shock you experience in each new place make the simple things in your "home" city that much more welcoming. I can remember the feeling of relief washing over me as I watched Dublin Port come into view after a particularly long trip.

My first hostel experience was in Edinburgh, Scotland at the High Street Hostel. Located right off of the Royal Mile, the building that houses the hostel looked like something out of Harry Potter (fittingly as HP holds its beginnings in that very city). Our location was ideal and aside from the bus we took to get to and from the airport, we were in walking distance of everything Edinburgh had to offer. And since our response to "what did you do in Edinburgh?' is always "eat", walking was essential to us not coming home ten pounds heavier.
When choosing a hostel, location is key. Although you may find a very cheap, very nice hostel outside of city limits, unless you'll be there for a lengthy amount of time, it's probably not worth it. Saving on time and money for transportation costs is key to getting the most out of a weekend away.
Walking to Arthur's Seat at the top of Mount Holyrood 
High Street was not the most glamorous of places to stay, but hey, you're in a hostel, and at £19 for two nights stay, it was a bargain. What I love about Europe is the ease and price of travel, RyanAir flights were often the cheapest part of my trip and an experience all in themselves. While High Street's bunks were not fitted with the most modern of linens, they were clean, offered lockers to keep our things safe and were for the most part quiet, making sleeping there enjoyable.
Pay attention to ratings when you book a hostel. Other traveler's opinions on a place are helpful and mostly accurate. If the comments continue to mention something over a period of time, it's probably true. And note why they're receiving the scores they are; is it because breakfast is £5?Are the employees rude? Did they feel unsafe or have things stolen? High Street currently holds a 78% rating on HostelWorld, they offer clean accommodation, a great location, and friendly staff; breakfast was not free and it was not the most updated place. Decide what matters to you and use ratings as a guide.
After Edinburgh I didn't travel anywhere outside of Ireland for a month in a half. In that time, I had researched a lot of places to go for my revisions week trip I would be taking. I think that overplanning can be the death of a trip, overloading yourself with things to do in a short period of time always leave me tired and I look back and realize that I didn't live in the moment while I was there.

Such was not the case for me during this trip. We started off in Brussels, Belgium, which in case you were unaware, is a very gray city. Although the Grand Place is beautiful, you'll find interesting architecture throughout the city and the smell of chocolate will waft through the streets. The Atomium and Little Europe lay on the outskirts of the city but I had little interest in a touristy attraction. I had chosen Brussels because of my Belgian heritage, and not knowing about anything more to do there other than seeing Mannekin Pis.

We arrived to our hostel, 2GO4 Quality, hungry, tired and rain soaked. This was my most expensive hostel at 20 a night and was decorated like what I imagine an Urban Outfitters hostel would look like, you get what I'm saying? The room we stayed in had an ornately carved wooden beam overhead and the most comfortable, delightfully white bed, it was like a hotel, except that we were bunking down with 12 strangers. Aside from the bed heaven, the hostel offered free use of three computers which is helpful if you're backpacking and want to make a social media check in every once in a while.
Take advantage of the staff that's employed by the hostel as well as the tourist maps they supply. You might feel stupid walking around with a map but they're full of useful information as well as directions. And they're a free keepsake from your trip.

The best thing that ever happened thanks to staying in a hostel was the discovery of the amazing Belgian waffle. I know what you're thinking, "how did you not know about Belgian waffles, we have them in the States?" Unless you've been to Belgium or know a Belgian who is an amazing cook, you don't know Belgian waffles. Thankfully we asked the man working reception at 2GO4 Quality where to find the best Belgian waffle. "Vitalgaufre" he said, "it's here." He circled it on our map and drew a path to it from the hostel. I will forever be indebted to that man. We ate there twice in twelve hours. Just give me a minute to reminisce...

Okay, back to the post. But first, you didn't think I'd leave it without a waffle picture, did you?
"Tourist" waffle

My apple waffle

My last hostel was in London, now called Hostel Fresh @ The White Ferry, Victoria, London. This is a hostel above a pub, surprisingly quiet and very safe and secure. Hostel rooms have keypads with different codes as well as the door at the top of the steps, allowing no pub goers to enter any sleeping quarters. This was an interesting experience for the three of us staying there as the beds were triple bunked, yet we were split up two to the top of one set and one on the bottom of the neighboring set. (I chose the bottom, it seemed safest).
What I learned from this stay is that in a large city, place yourself in the center of the things you want to do while you're there. I happened to be with my friend who practically lives in London, so getting lost wasn't going to happen, but if you're iffy about public transport, use the tools available to you when booking a hostel to see what will be the best fit. 
Also, if you're offered a free breakfast with your stay, take it. At the White Ferry the breakfast was simple and early: toast and peanut butter, cereals and tea between 7 & 9 AM. But eating there for free allowed me to save some money for the numerous Pizza Express trips we made during the three days. I also found it nice to be up and ready that early and to be able to plan the excursions for the day while having a little quiet as the sun shone through the pub windows.
Overall, I had a pretty fantastic experience with hostels. Sure they weren't as nice as the four star hotel I stayed at in Paris (courtesy of a friend's parents), but looking back, what was the trip really about? It's about the experience, the things that I saw and the cultures that I got to be in for a few days. You don't go to these cities just to sit in a hotel room, you go to sight see, to eat, to learn, to indulge in life.

So when you go, remember that it's not about where you were when your eyes were closed, its about what you got to see in the world while they were open.

-J







Monday, March 3, 2014

February Favorites

In typical blogger fashion, here's a February Favorites post. I find that Favorites posts are also a little bit of a "get to know me" as well, so this seems like the perfect opportunity to let you lovelies know more about one half of The Slow Runners Club.

Ellie Goulding
Now we all know who Ellie Goulding is. I was listening to her back in 2010, but had forgotten how simply amazing she sounded until recently. Her most recent album, Halcyon, (and Halcyon Days) has been all that I've listened to for much of February.


What hooked me on the album was her song "Goodness Gracious". I played it on repeat at work for two days via Youtube, went out and physically bought the CD and then unwrapped it in my car so that I could play it on the way home.

Current favorites are "My Blood" and "Joy", but the whole album is fantastic. We also scooped up General Admission tickets for her upcoming tour, so you'll definitely be hearing about it.

Helen Melonlady
Like I said in the previous post, one of us is YouTube obsessed. Can you guess who it is yet? Okay yes, it's me and this is the first of my two YouTuber favorites. 

May I present to you Helen Anderson, known to the YouTube community as Helen Melonlady.


She's a British YouTuber with a love for creeper shoes, dying her hair purple, and singing. Occasionally she puts out covers like the one above, which is the one that caused me to spend an entire Sunday watching her vlogs and videos (her cover of Royals is pretty amazing, too). 

Now I understand that Helen may not be everybody's cup of tea, but she definitely is mine. If she's your's too, then check her band Box of Light and buy their single "Falling" on iTunes.

Essiebutton
My second of favorite YouTubers is Estee of Essiebutton. She's a Canadian expat, living in London with her boyfriend, Aslan, and rescued greyhound, Reggie. Estee posts beauty videos, writes a blog, and consistently puts up glorious twenty minute long vlogs. Here's a tea haul she did a few months ago, (featuring my favorite, TeaPigs tea):

She's so down to earth that I can't understand why she doesn't have more subscribers. Her videos are the ones I leave for last to watch on my subscription list because I love them so much and you know, you save the best for last.

Her vlogs also make me long for life abroad and bring back fond memories of being in the UK. Every one of her videos allows me to live vicariously through her as she travels almost effortlessly to Marakesh and Rome. Ugh, I remember when I could fly to another country for the weekend, what a life that was. Anyway, you should check her out because she's amazing and you'll love her.

I think that should suffice for my February Favorites for this post. I'll write part two, a non-people Favorites, so that this one doesn't last forever. 

Until then,
-J 




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